Which Choice is Right for Me?
When the lines or the word “Pregnant” appeared on the test, you could hardly believe it. Now, you’re faced with one of the most significant decisions you will make in life. You don’t feel ready to be a parent, but do you choose to have an abortion or do you consider making an adoption plan?
Both of these options involve loss. Abortion ends your pregnancy completely. Placing a child for adoption means your pregnancy continues, but the child you’ve given birth to goes to another family.
Often, women don’t consider both options, but rather only one or the other. We’re glad you’re asking about each. Your decision relies on gathering as much information as possible about each option, and not making a permanent decision from a place of fear.
If you’d like to discuss these with someone in person, we’re here for you. Please contact the Path location nearest you. We’ll provide you with the facts you need to make a confident decision.
When Considering Abortion
The first thing to take into consideration is the fact that abortion in Idaho is illegal. The only exception is when a healthcare provider deems it necessary to save the mother’s life, and for rape/incest within the first trimester. There could be costs and risks associated with going out of state to access an abortion, and it is important to make an informed decision.
Although we do not perform or refer for abortion, we can provide factual, medically based information about procedures, the side effects to expect, and the potential physical and emotional risks. There are consequences you should be aware of with both the abortion pill method and a surgical abortion.
When Considering Adoption
The adoption process is significantly different today than it was a few decades ago. Now, the expectant mother or birth mother makes all of the decisions.
She chooses the adoptive couple that will raise her child, and the future she hopes her child will have. In addition, she can, if she wishes, continue a relationship with her child and their adoptive family.
The expectant mother receives free adoption services, and all of her medical and legal expenses are covered. Path is not a licensed, child-placing agency, but we can provide referrals for reputable, licensed adoption specialists in our area.
Free Services to Confirm Your Pregnancy First
Your first step before making any decision is to confirm your pregnancy. Path provides free lab-quality pregnancy testing. If your test is positive, Path offers a free ultrasound, performed by a Licensed Sonographer or Registered Nurse.
You may be wondering why you need an ultrasound if you’re considering either an abortion or adoption. A limited obstetrical ultrasound can help protect your health and safety. You’ll also receive information that’s vital to your decision.
Ultrasound shows you:
How far along you are in your pregnancy and notifies you of your estimated due date.
If the location of the pregnancy is correct. A pregnancy located outside the uterus is called an ectopic pregnancy, which is extremely dangerous, even life-threatening.
If the pregnancy is developing. Experts estimate that as many as 26% of all pregnancies end in a miscarriage. If the ultrasound detects a fetal heartbeat, your pregnancy is developing. If not, it’s either too early or you have already miscarried.
Contact Path For the Help You Need
An unexpected pregnancy is stressful. Don’t make this decision without first looking at all of your options. We can help you with the detailed information you need.
You are a top priority for the Path team. Schedule a free and confidential appointment to confirm your pregnancy and discuss these options. We’re here for you.
Treasure Valley Path does not perform or refer for abortion.
All abortion information sourced in this blog is based on accurate information at the time of writing.